Why We Want to Involve Your Children in Financial Planning

Jillian Diana |

In our decades of guiding clients through the intricacies of financial planning and wealth management, we’ve come to understand one fundamental truth: financial success isn’t just about growing assets—it’s about preserving wealth for future generations. At our firm, we believe in the importance of multi-generational relationships with our clients, a strategy rooted in trust, transparency, and long-term vision. This approach not only ensures continuity but also enhances the well-being of families for generations to come.

Why Multi-Generational Relationships Matter to Us

Financial planning isn’t a one-size-fits-all solution. Every family has its own unique set of goals, challenges, and values. For many, the dream isn’t just to live comfortably in retirement, but also to pass on wealth to children and grandchildren. However, without proper planning, wealth often erodes by the third generation. This is where multi-generational financial relationships become critical.

Our philosophy revolves around understanding not just our clients, but their entire families. By including the next generation in financial discussions early, we can help them understand the family’s financial philosophy, educate them on wealth preservation, and ensure that they are equipped to manage future responsibilities.

The Benefits of Involving Children in Financial Planning

1. Financial Literacy and Education

One of the primary benefits of involving clients' children in financial planning is the opportunity to teach them about money early on. Many young people grow up without a strong understanding of personal finance, investments, or wealth management. By introducing them to these concepts through family meetings, we help them build financial literacy. This education is invaluable, as it prepares them for the day when they will need to make critical financial decisions on their own.

2. Continuity and Succession Planning

Wealth transfer is a delicate process that can lead to conflict and confusion if not properly addressed. By fostering relationships with the next generation, we can ensure they are not only aware of the family’s financial structure but are also aligned with its goals. This continuity helps smooth transitions during key life events—whether it’s a retirement, a significant inheritance, or the sale of a family business. When children are included in the planning process, they are better prepared to step into leadership roles and manage the assets responsibly.

3. Preserving Family Values and Legacy

Financial planning is not just about money—it’s about values. Every family has its own unique approach to philanthropy, saving, spending, and investing. By involving children in these discussions early, we help families articulate their values and ensure that these principles are passed down. This is particularly important for families who want to build a legacy, whether it’s through charitable giving, supporting family-owned businesses, or simply ensuring that the next generation continues to manage wealth responsibly.

4. Understanding History and Context of Wealth

It is essential for the next generation to understand the history and context of their family’s wealth because it provides them with a deeper sense of responsibility and appreciation for the efforts that built it. When children and grandchildren recognize the origins of the family’s financial success—whether through entrepreneurship, hard work, or strategic investments—they are more likely to value and preserve that wealth. Understanding the challenges and sacrifices involved helps instill a mindset of stewardship, ensuring that future generations are motivated to protect, grow, and responsibly manage the assets entrusted to them. This historical awareness also reinforces the family’s values, creating a stronger foundation for wise decision-making and sustaining the family legacy over time.

5. Tailored Strategies for Every Generation

Different generations have different needs, risk tolerances, and investment goals. Younger generations, for example, may be more focused on debt management, first-time home purchases, or starting a business, while older generations may prioritize retirement income and estate planning. By building multi-generational relationships, we can offer personalized financial strategies that address the unique concerns of each family member. This holistic approach ensures that everyone is on the same page while still addressing their individual needs.

6. Mitigating Risk and Reducing Financial Strain

Families are often blindsided by unexpected events—such as the death of a family member or sudden financial emergencies—that can strain relationships and wealth. By working closely with all generations, we can help families anticipate and plan for such events, reducing the risk of financial mismanagement. For example, we can design estate plans that minimize tax burdens, help create trusts that ensure assets are distributed as intended, or set up insurance policies to protect family wealth.

7. Strengthening Family Bonds

Money can be a source of tension in families, particularly when there is a lack of communication or understanding about financial decisions. By involving the entire family in financial discussions, we help foster open communication, reducing misunderstandings and potential conflicts. These conversations bring families closer together, aligning them around shared goals and ensuring that everyone feels heard and involved.

Building Trust Across Generations

Our firm believes that trust is the foundation of any successful financial relationship, and building that trust across generations is crucial. When we take the time to build relationships with our clients’ children, we aren’t just creating future business opportunities—we are safeguarding the financial future of the entire family. Trust grows when families see that we are invested in their long-term success and that we understand the complexities and dynamics of their unique situation.

By fostering these deep, multi-generational relationships, we can offer guidance that transcends individual lifetimes and becomes a part of the family’s financial narrative. We understand that financial decisions made today will impact not just our clients, but their children and grandchildren. This is why we make it a priority to work with the entire family, ensuring that wealth is not only preserved but that it grows and flourishes for generations.

Conclusion

At the heart of our firm’s philosophy is a commitment to building lasting relationships with our clients and their families. Multi-generational planning is not just a service we offer; it’s a responsibility we take seriously. By involving the next generation in financial planning, we help families preserve wealth, educate future leaders, and create legacies that extend beyond individual lives.

By making this commitment, we ensure that families are better equipped to navigate the complexities of wealth management, succession planning, and long-term financial success. In doing so, we’re not just managing money—we’re fostering a future of financial well-being for generations to come.